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الاثنين، 26 سبتمبر 2011

After marriage

Many people and am not saying that all of us am just talking about Category of people that have
such feeling after marriage .felling that marriage is the end of every good thing no more
freedom and taking responsibility and they see that marriage is exactly like prison .
once they get married they forget his soul mate   his wife and start to act with her as
she were Prison guard so he became unhappy and am saying to these people if you just can change
these ideas. After marriage you shall become one flesh; sounds like partners,
you have now become united. so after marriage you are each other’s companions,
each others best friend, each others lover, and each other’s support,
 After marriage  husband and a wife are joined together there is unity.
 Unity is a state of togetherness, wholeness, and completeness.
It’s a tandem working in harmony. A tandem is described as a group of two or more,
arranged one behind the other, or used or acting in conjunction.
 Marriage is two half   the wife is a half of the unity. Husbands,
 wives, are you seeing this? You are not to be acting separately toward your own personal goals;
 you are not singles any more after marriage both of you seeking to the benefit of the whole.
 You cannot operate together with singular intentions. This brings up the question,
 are you working together in your relationship? Honestly answering this may give you some
 insight into any dysfunctional areas of your  marriage.and if you get the ability to change
 your wrong insights about marriage you will live very happy life.

I just wanna leave my parent house

I am going to talk about one of the most serious problems that exist in our Arabic community .
Muslims girls or we can say Arabic girls in general are looking for marriage and this nature girls all over the dream about the day that they gonna be wives and mothers by marring the person that they love but the problem is right now they wanna just marry because another reason .because they wanna leave their parent house 
A lot of Arabian girls see that marriage is the perfect solution to get rid of their family problems. marriage  for a lot Arabic girls is away to escape from their life with their families .these girls have their point of view but marriage for this reason gonna be successful marriage ?or it just dream
We should be concerned about this problem because the marriage which happen for this reason dramatically will be end by divorce .restriction and orders imposed by a lot of Arabic families on their girls push them to think about any idea to leave this house like  marriage .she will be ready to marry anyone who come to ask her “would you marry me “she will be ready to give up her dream about marring the person she love. so we should change our way in treating with our girls to save them we should give them the confidence and they will be better we leave that desire to control every single detail of their life giving them some space they  have the right to have a little bit privacy .for good future to our Muslims girl we should start from now.


eight ideas for happy marriage

Happy marriage just needs keys to open its gate these are few keys that can help you

1)Always remember that your main goal is to have happy marriage so do whatever you can with your spouse to work in this and start with avoid hopeless argument specially in the small things that doesn’t deserve to fight because of it

2) For a happy both of you should focus on giving not just taking do as much as you can to meet your spouse needs

3) Always try to do things make your spouse feel that you appreciate him and he is important this will make him happy
4) Listen more than you talk you should understand both of you point of view

5) Appreciate the feeling of your spouse don’t ever make irony of his feeling and if you ever did such a thing so you owe your spouse apology. if you have made some mistakes in your marriage life before you have to fix it and start over again.

6) No one is completely perfect so forgiveness should be in between you ,the road of happy marriage cannot be completed without forgiveness

7) Always remember the  moments of happiness you lived with your spouse

8) Don’t ever look back, what happened in the past is gone live the present and focus on the future







skills of telling truth to your spouse

When we discussed “Does it really worth “article we mentioned a lot of things about honesty
and how mush this is related to a happy marriage life , and to complete what
we have started we will mention some skills that help you to say the truth and be honest
Skills of telling the truth

1)Select the right time to talk with your spouse and know that you  are doing this just to
save your marriage
   
2)When you are telling try to show how important is your spouse to you
and say that you are telling him because you love him and you want  your marriage relation
to be clear
   
3) Of course apology should be included in your delivery
4) The fewer sentences and keeping it short as much as you can, will be better
5) Don’t ever think that your spouse should accept the truth with open arm.
So try not to defend yourself and just listen, by this he will fell that you regretted doing this
And make sure that he will appreciate this and he will forgive you sooner or later
Eventually I hope that honesty will be one day our policy ,for clear and happy marriage



May be you think that it’s not easy to attract a man and this need a lot of efforts ,no this is not true ,you can attract a man even at the first sight ,but you have to know some easy techniques that will help you  to attract your guy ?
here are some tips :
1)The first sight
You have to be feminine in appearance so when a man eyes falls on you, he will be attracted immediately , and you can do this through
-Your cloth: don’t expect that you could attract a man when you wearing clothes remind him with his mother
Am not saying that you should wear clothes that reveal  much of your skin, because by then you will attract
Wrong type of men that are not looking for love but just for sex and of course you don’t want to be involved with this type.
-your smell: your smell should be nice, by using light perfume and  and don’t put too much .
Now you are feminine in appearance

2) Second step is to give him a sign
You should make the man feel that it’s OK and he can come and talk to you
And to make him feel this you should give him a sign………..how?
Simply smile to him, if you are with you friends, the moment you catch his eyes smile then quickly look down back to your friends. You can do this two or
three times, after this he will be ready to come over and talk to you
3)Start up conservations
You have talk about your interests make him feel that you have something in common ,you should  look cute so you can attract him more to talk
4)Flirt
of course you should flirt with him, but not too much,
just give him worm smiles , you should know that flirting doesn’t mean wearing short skirts or seducing him ,of course you can attract the man by doing this
but as I told you before this type will not be looking for love ,
5)Be confident 
make him feel that you are different  ,let him see your intelligence ,confident ,but don’t try to  pretend that you anyone other than your self,eventually
you have to Leave touch of mystery ,before you leave make sure that you didn’t answer all his questions ,this will make him interested to see you  again
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Best Way to Search for Muslim Soul mates

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Marriages in Islam is considered sacred and as a requirement to get rid of sin. In most cases, it is the parents that take up a lot of responsibility in getting their children married to a suitable partner. In the olden days, it was rather difficult to find suitable partners as the choice has to be made between the community and a relation.  But today, the Muslim community seems to have grown from this ideology and is willing to search for life partners from a wide pool of prospective brides and bridegrooms. But as the Muslim communities are spread evenly across different countries, it is still not easy to find these searches. The Zawaj services for Muslim are becoming really popular on the internet these days. In fact, a number of websites have already sprung up that have taken up the responsibility of lessening the burden of Muslim parents in getting their children married.

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Muslim Marriage in France

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Muslim Dating in Saudi Arabia

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